Women who spank their man
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Spanking your man
You may have many reasons to spank your man . You might be looking to spice up your life. You might want to gain control of a obnoxious man. You may be tired of his lazy ways. Every women will have a different reason to start spanking the man in her life. The end result is always the same . You will have a more loyal respectful man . Your man will be more in love with you than ever before. Your man will be more attentive to you needs than his own. You will have a feeling of power and control . You will be more self confident. You will relieve stress from your self as well as him . You will be able to get over arguments much faster and you will always come out winning that argument . What ever your reason may be you will benefit from spanking your man .I will list some of the best methods and tools .
I personally think a good old fashioned hair brush is the best tool . I am talking about a big flat wooden hairbrush not a modern day plastic one. you can still buy the old fashioned ones in stores . You can also find them in second hand stores and the ones you will find in there will probably already have some mileage from spanking on them . This brush will be your best tool becasue it is easy to handle.It is very sufficient for spanking . After he is used to getting spanked by you it can be placed on the mantle every time he sees it he will be reminded of what its for . When you have company your visitors will know they are in a women controlled home. to you it will be a trophy
How a spanking should be delivered .
To me the most effective way would be over your knee . He needs to be placed over your knee there are several ways of doing this no matter how small you are or how large he is . once he is over your knees he should be spoken to. As the spanking begins you will need to focus your swats dead center of the cheek , a few good swats with a nice rhythm. Alternate from cheek to cheek .Take a moment to rub the back of the brush across his bottom while you explain why he is being punished . Then proceed with some more spanking . Do not worry about his bottom turning red as that is the goal here and if it is become red it is becoming more sensitive and your getting through to him At this time he may become very aroused this is normal especially for a first timer . If this happens be sure to be verbal about it and sort of tease him about being aroused . you can proceed as long as you like . Some women like to continue until the man begins to cry a little this will happen with even the toughest of men.
Spanking your man will give your marriage a whole new outlook. You will have a new spark ignited . You may not enjoy doing it at first but as you see the benefits roll in you will learn to love it and start looking for reasons to spank him .
I do not believe enough women are aware of the benefits of spanking so please pass the info on to your friends and family .
i have recently found a website from Jacqueline Omerta. She has a wonderful website that has lots of information on this. Safe ways of doing this. Positions and all the info you would need to become the Spanking boss in your home. Her website is www.womenwhospankmen.com it is a wonderful site to see .
I would like you to leave your thoughts and stories on here so other women can become educated on this. Many marriages have been saved and corrected and even enhanced from the women becoming the spanker .
The male has always been improved by spanking . Spanking a male takes away his stress , motivates him in and out of the home. Gives him more desire to please his wife.
what are your experiences?
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very unique read thanks
Many man pay dominant pros for this very same thing becasue the wife is way to prude to even try this .
I am one of those men . It is a great relief to submit to my dominant women every week .
I started spanking my husband a couple of months ago, he was difficult about it at first. I had to ask him to try it "Just once darling, just for me if you say 'monkey' I promise to stop."
I waited until my birthday almost a month after he had 'almost' agreed. I told him to have a shower, I think he was expecting me to want some serious birthday attention. I got dressed up in stockings, high heels etc. and sat on the edge of the bed when he came in I said:
"Its my birthday so I can have whatever I want RIGHT?"
"Yeah course you can darlin."
"Good, lose the towel and get across my knee."
"A?"
"You said I could have whatever I wanted, I want you across my knee, and you promised me you would try it."
"I promised?"
"You did." (I lied.)
He kind of 'grunted' and got across my knee, it was a bit awkward he is 6ft 3in, and he was the wrong way round for a right handed person. I didn't care I was very excited, I gave him what I would now consider to be a very, very light spanking and we had fabulous sex afterwards.
He changed immediately, he was like the man of my dreams. He was doing housework because he wanted to!!!!
About a week later I told him how much I had enjoyed it and asked if he fancied doing it again, he agreed immediately.
I have spanked him as often as possible since, each time a little harder and longer than the last. Each time his bum is a bit redder than the last. He upset me yesterday and I'm just waiting for an opportunity to get him across my knee. He knows its coming because I told him he was really going to get it this time. He didn't object in fact I think he is looking forward to it.
He now does loads of housework without being asked let alone nagged. If I ask him to do something he does it immediately with a smile. He has undergone a complete transformation and he is now an amazingly caring, attentive man who looks for ways to please me. :-)
Friend have started to notice and ask questions, I would never tell friends the truth for his sake, so I just say: "I don't what's changed him, but I'm not complaining about it."
I don't care if people say its 'kinky' or its 'not normal' if they had any idea of the husband they could have they would change their opinion.
SERIOUSLY YOU HAVE GOT TO TRY THIS WITH YOUR HUSBAND.
Samantha (Very, very happy now :-)) xx
I have been married since 10 years ago, my wife spanks me as punishment using wooden and leather paddle, belt, electric cord, crop and cane. She does it at least once a week
I enjoy spanking from my wife. I avoid discipline though in the sense that there is no carry over into normal life except for the closeness and erotica created by it. This is a normal part of foreplay and just occasionally it is the main thing. For me it touches something deep and without it there would be something missing in our sex life. I would class my wife as vanilla but she has said that seeing me switched on switches her on.
I received my first bare bottomed OTK spanking on my wedding night from my brand new wife before we made love.
I have used spanking with my husband now for 2 1/2 yrs - works wonders. The old wood hairbrush is most effective; and leaving it on the side table is a nice reminder to him.
I've been spanking my man for at least 15 years! It's the best! He knows when he's been bad and knows what's coming!Great AA (attitude adjustment). I will never stop! Great for the marriage!
" Lower your pants and bare your bottom "
" Yes your going over my knee "
A spanking a day keeps the attitude away.
Make sure he fetches the brush after you pull his pants down. A good boy kisses your knees afterwards. Nylons and the chair. Just like auntie used to !
My husband is 71 and I'm still strapping his behind.
He doesn't know what hit him when I'm finished !
My wife is also my disciplinarian. She turns me over her knee and spanks my bare bottom with a hairbrush whenever she sees fit. She blisters my cheeks good but I admit that I have deserved every spanking and no doubt will get many more. "Take your pants down, young man!" That is all she has to say.
Jeff Goldthwaite
goldthwaite.jeff@yahoo.com
i wife gave me a real spanking two weeks ago it changed my attiude it did hurt and make me really cry yestaday
i was being rude she told me i was going to get a spanking i said i was sorry i got out of that one but
im sure im going to get a nother one
my girl fried had me get hude lay on the bed face down
and gave me a spanking i didnt for get she said my butt
was cherry red when she was done i was not to ever call her a bitch again
My wife started spanking me 6 years ago, reluctantly but at my constant "please try it". First it was to spice up our love life, then it moved on to stress relief and then punnishment.
Now she is an expert and also very agreeable, she only uses hand and hairbrush, but can make our sex life terrific, get rid of any stress issues, and when I need or she thinks I need, have me bawling my eyes out as she weilds the hairbrush long and hard.
I use to be a kind of bully ,I now know to hide the truth ,I was really a cowardly sissie as my wife found out one night when I came home drunk and mouthie and started on her .I guess sheeither saw how drunk I was or had ,just had enough and she wrestled me to the floor ,reached over grabbed the cord ,pluged into the wall and tied my hands ,behind my back .She then said ,things are about to change .She pulled my pants down and took the belt out of the loops of my pants and proceeded to welt my ass ,untill I was crying like a little girl ,and beat me harder with it ,as I peed myself and said your just a big mouthed coward that uses his size to bully me ,Well now that I know you are a little sissy cry baby ,I will now be in charge ,and she had me admitting I was really a sissy ,and had been beaten up by two girls in school and use to wear panties ,and had even sucked off my school friends,and all the time my tiny cock was getting hard and my wife then knew I was really a sissy and not the big mouth bully I pretended to be ,and now I do as she says and even wear a french maid outfit to serve her and all her girlfriends ,and she welts my ass when ever I say anything wrong ,I wearpanties now 24/7 and clean the house cook her meals and even her now real mens meals and also suck thier cocks when she desires me to ,I have never been so happy and know I have been put in my proper place and my wife says she is finally getting real sex and real climaxs from real men and loves watching me in my panties and outfit clean and cook ,but mostly when she spanks my ass and has me crying like a little girl ,loves to do it in front of her friends ,now ,she says it not only gives her satisfaction ,finally shutting my big bully mouth ,but gets off seeing the other girls laugh and humiliate my tiny cock and my sissy outfit ,Sissy Brucie
i was spanked by a 14yr old cause she thought i was seeing some one else.
she asked me to get over her knee for a good hiding,.
that i did and wow that hurt.
Once on a vacation my wife caught me coming out of the bathroom after a shower, pulled my towel down grabbed me by my handle and dragged me over to the bed. Just then there was a knock at the door and my wife asked who it was. Housekeeping with your extra towels. Come in. What? No honey. In walked the 50 something house keeper who stopped dead in her tracks. Honey let go I'm naked. That's not all she will see. And with that she pulled me over her knee and started my spanking. My wife is much taller and stronger than I am and hand spanked me to tears in front of the woman, to her delight.
I m still not married and in my opinion; The house bands have to be spanked the same way the wives for discipline, a good painful spanking in bare bottom; it will help me to obey, creates harmony in the home I will thank and love my wife if she corrects me, I think she do it because she wants makes me a better person and excellent house band I´m looking for a wife that be agree with this point of view please contact me at latinspank@hotmail.com
My wife tires each of my arms to the doorway and proceeds to spank me about once month. I am fully naked while she is dress. Afterwards, while still tied to the doorway, she drops to her knees in front of my and, we you know the rest. A win, win for both of us.
My husband asked me to spank him for years. after a long time I said I would if he let me do something I desired. he agreed before he knew what I wanted! I spanked him several times before I let on. eventually I said I'd like to go on a date with a guy that had been asking me out for ages at work reluctantly he agreed. I now date who i want when I want, have sex with who I want when I want and all it takes is a good spanking for him and a little immagination from me.
hello everyone! i'm a young asian girl and i'm really keen on spanking espeacially f/m spanking. I want to talk and make friend with men who like being spanked by his girlfriends or his wives. I really want to chat with you and to be shared your real experience, your like... my email is tangthucnhi2000@gmail.com Hope to receive your leter soon!
I am spanked on a regular basis My wife spanks me if and when ever we have an argument. I am taken over her knee and paddled until my rear end is on fire then she makes me wear a pair of cool satin panties for the rest of the evening . Sometimes I am to go to work wearing those panties. We share the Dominance in the household. But in the bedroom She is in charge for the most part. Every time she spanks me I love her even more ! It is very exciting to be spanked and put in panties by her. Sometimes I do things that i know will lead to my spanking...
I love when my wife puts on her leather pants and spanks me It is more sexual for me . The swats Send waves of passion right through me and often will excite me as if i took 3 viagras . Just like the author said I love and adore her a million times stronger than before. Last night was a good spanking and I was then put in a girl pink pajama set before bedtime. I know my place in her world ( over her knee ) . Out side the home I am in charge of a 50 man construction crew . Go figure !
Hello everyone! Nice too meet all of u again! I left a comment about this topic 4 months ago and then i forgot it. Today I come back here and realize that my comment wasn't right, there were some grammar mistakes. But thanks to it, i could meet some interesting men who also prefer talking about F/M spanking with me. As i said, I am an Asian girl. Honestly, spanking is very rare to know in my country. But i realize that i really love it. So I come here and hope to make friends with more and more men who like being spanked and dominated by their women and have the same hobbies with me. I am always ready to receive your mails. My email is: tangthucnhi2000@gmail.com. Hope to receive your mails soon.
I was introduced to spanking by my ex-girlfriend. It happened quite by accident. When we first started dating, she had one of those paddles hanging on her bedroom wall with all of her kids names on it, you know as a joke or reminder to them. Well, one day as we were in her room, I jokingly said that maybe she should use that on me because I was bad. She didn't take me serious at first, but after a few weeks of me bringing it up from time to time, she finally asked if that was something I really wanted her to do. So, since I was curious about it anyway, I said yes. That's all it took and from there she started to spank me. I have to admit, I really liked it. And so did she!
When my wife and I were dating one day the police brought her 10 year old son home for throwing a rock at a passing car. She told the officer that he would be doing everything standing up for awhile . I could see the boy was really scared and as the officer left she grabbed her son walked him to a chair and in a flash took his pants down put him over her knee and spanked him till he was promising anything. When she let him up he was rubbing his behind and crying , I commented on how stern she was and what the affect was on her son. She said without hesitation that I would get the same if I deserved it! It was such a turn on for her to say that. We are married and she has spanked me several times and each spanking really hurt. I listen to her and follow her rules. Spanking works!
My wife is a no nonsense woman. Early in our marriage she laid down her rules and if I violate any rule it pants down and spanked . Over the years she has raised the stakes and increased the punishments introducing a razor strap which hurts like hell. She has spanked me a few times with visitors in the house and once she really gave it to me in front of her sister.My sister in law has mentioned that she has since thought of spanking me herself.
The other day was my wife's 50th b'day and as usual she took me over HER knee in the kitchen wearing only my watch. Before we knew it the door opened and in walked our neighbor to wish my wife a happy birthday. I tried getting up but my wife held me down saying it was too late for hiding as Lynn has already seen me tanning you. She explained to her that I take all of the b'day spankings in our house. Lynn said that it was her b'day last week and without further ado I was offered to her. Before I could protest both woman changed positions as this 70 year old woman hand spanked me to tears.
My wife has been spanking me since the first week we were married. It's been six years now, and she has a regular schedule that she follows. Basically, I get a serious spanking 3 times a week. She slowly increased the number of strokes and the firmness over time. She has me up to 100 strokes, a 5 minute rest and then 100 more. The few are really hard and I'm still red the next morning. I never complin and I never resist. It has made our marrage much happier then our friend's seem, since we never fight or argue and Wwe both know who is in charge.
I live in a neighborhood where all of the women spank their
hubby,s bare bottoms. åt least once a week, if I do something she doesn't like, she takes my pants off, PUTS me
over her knee and spanks me hard with her hairbrush for at least 45 minutes. Every one knows when I am getting a spanking because I cry like a baby.No, I won't tell you where
I live.
My attractive 40-ish wife has spanked me for over 10 years. She believes in disciplining when necessary, and started to exert substantial control in the marriage to make up for my shortcomings. She doesn't kid around either and swings a painful hairbrush or yardstick. She sets the rules and things are better. She recently tanned my hide for smoking cigarettes with a neighbor and then lying to her about it. Our marriage did improve, and we are happy.
I told my wife I found this site; she reminded me that when she decided to issue discipline she considered doing it routinely in the beginning. She said she didn't because she wanted to give me a painful spanking when she felt I needed it, not something to be doled out in a regular ritual. Her spankings can be painful, but effective.
I would like to clarify the info from my comment 3 weeks ago:
We were the latest couple of 14 families in my neighborhood
who share the "wife is in charge" ethic. The women are all former members of a women's social club.They used to discuss their domestic problems and after a while decided that their men were all bad little boys at heart and spanking could solve all of their problems. Luckily, a new development of single family homes began to take shape nearby, and all decided to sell their houses and buy into
it. Amazingly, it worked, and over a period of a year, they had succeeded in establishing their ideal community.
Now, the sound of the hairbrush on bare flesh, accompanied by tearful howling is a common occurance here, and is questioned by no body.
hi everyone, i'm a spankee guy, i wanna to make friendship with any female who like to spank and descipline her man, i'll be so glad if i got a message from you, got_me_in_alex12@yahoo.com
My wife and I have an agreement to settle disputes by her spanking me. This was a private arrangement. Then we were visiting my sister in law and I said something that offended my wife. She asked her sister if we could be excused, then she said Brad is acting like a child so he is going to get a spanking! I was so embarrassed and objected. My wife told me I should go into the next room or get it right there. I got up to go to the next room and my wife swatted me on the but and told me to get going, then she came into the room and had her hair brush. She made me take my pants down and spanked me until I was begging her to stop . Then she told me to pull my pants up and go apologize to her sister.
Please refer any woman you know who needs to keep domestic discipline necessary to strengthen a caring and loving gentleman who knows and appreciates a relationship free of 'the naughty boy'behavior! I live ,in Florida but will do what's necessary to enjoy this very important lifestyle. I am healthy, clean,safe, young 60 man who knows how to treat a lady (or learn trying) In all sincerity- Robert
Buenos días a todos, que tan bueno este espacio que habla de azotes y disciplina. Soy un hombre que necesita azotes. Es cierto que después buenas azotes me siento mucho mejor, con mas ganas para hacer las cosas, me dan mas motivación y me quita el stress. Pero no tengo la suerte de tener una esposa que le gusta azotar a su hombre, estoy solo. Mi deseo es conocer a mujeres que le gustan hacerlo para hablar y compartir las mismas necesidades. Será un placer poder leer las. Espero sus mensajes g-jclaude-y@hotmail.com
Good morning to everyone how good this space to talk about spanking and discipline. I am a man who needs spanking. It is true that good spanking after I feel much better, with more desire to do things, give me more motivation and takes away my stress. But I have the luck to have a wife who likes to spank her man, I'm alone. My desire is to know women who do not like to talk and share the same needs. We look forward to reading. I hope your message.
Good morning to everyone how good this space to talk about spanking and discipline. I am a man who needs spanking. It is true that good spanking after I feel much better, with more desire to do things, give me more motivation and takes away my stress. But I have the luck to have a wife who likes to spank her man, I'm alone. My desire is to know women who do not like to talk and share the same needs. We look forward to reading. I hope your message g-jclaude-y@hotmail.com
I get spanked at least once a week and she finishes with me in the corner in red satin panties.her mother-has also joined in and i have to submit to her now. Its good for me I know that but having to undress in front of them and get the hairbrush from our bedroom is so humiliating.my wife spanks me until i cry and scold me the whole time. Believe me when I put those panties on I am sobbing ready to do as I am told.
When they spanked in the schools (yrs. back) was it with the "pants down" ?
For very grievous offenses Linda uses a frat paddle to blister my bottom and then she employs detention punishments for one solid week.
For Several times a day, It can consist of writing lines, as many as 1000, kneeling on uncooked round beans for an hour or kneeling with my arms extended to my side for four 15 minute intervals ,for as much as two hours. Detention is very painful but it is invariably accompanied by the dictum of no sex for the whole week, which is the worst of punishments. She doesn’t even allow me to service her with my tongue. Even worse when I’m kneeling in pain , she parades around in filmy negligee, as further punishment because it invariably arouses me.
Seeing me struggle in pain , fully erect , she gets really very moist. So she often places her hand by her precious treasure and carries her essence to my nose and lips. Her marvelous aroma makes me crazy with lust. And she knows it and LOL. Yesterday, when I was writing lines, she spread her scent to my nose and lips three different times driving me crazy. She was cackling , like a witch.
disgraziato
miranda 2 years ago
I have spanked my husband for over 5 years now . It has improved our life together very much so. It is very effective. I do enjoy it. He has become much better husband. Sometimes after a spanking i like to put a nice pink or floral satin brief panty on him over his red bottom this keeps him very docile and marriage oriented ! He is 32 and his main goal in life now is to make me happy